{"id":198,"date":"2007-04-06T13:36:40","date_gmt":"2007-04-06T13:36:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vhkssinging.wordpress.com\/2007\/04\/06\/friendly-and-unfriendly-choirs\/"},"modified":"2015-10-07T12:06:19","modified_gmt":"2015-10-07T12:06:19","slug":"friendly-and-unfriendly-choirs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/2007\/04\/06\/friendly-and-unfriendly-choirs\/","title":{"rendered":"friendly and unfriendly choirs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most choral singers must have had this experience: of trying to engage another in the choir in conversation, who has clearly decided that you aren&#8217;t in their league and can safely be ignored.  I&#8217;ve already written about the time I rejoined a choir for a concert and only the conductor&#8217;s wife of the current singers spoke to me, and all those who weren&#8217;t regular members were shunted onto the back row regardless of height.  Despite this experience I sang with them again a couple of years later.  On my way to the first rehearsal I was approached by one of the other singers who on getting close said &#8216;Sorry, I thought you were a member of my choir!&#8217; before walking away.  To be fair, others did speak to me, though some spoiled the effect of familiarity by getting my name wrong.<\/p>\n<p>It isn&#8217;t one particular choir; at a social event for another one I and one of the first sopranos arrived some time before anyone else. I can still recall the look of horror spreading across her face as she realised she had no choice but to talk to a second soprano!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s possible to find individual singers acting like this in a choir of any standard, and it&#8217;s only when it starts to infect an entire section that it really matters.  For obvious reasons it tends to happen more in good choirs and it was rife in Cambridge; perhaps many people grow out of it when they cease to be students.  I&#8217;ve come across very little of it in choirs which exist to visit cathedrals.<\/p>\n<p>I suspect I was guilty of this myself when I went on tour with a well-known choir some years ago, towards singers in my section whom I suspected of having been included because their husbands were needed for tenor or bass sections (I&#8217;ve already written about this).  Also my frustration with the lack of opportunities in Manchester and the feeling that mostly I was singing below my natural level must have been apparent at times.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most choral singers must have had this experience: of trying to engage another in the choir in conversation, who has clearly decided that you aren&#8217;t in their league and can safely be ignored. I&#8217;ve already written about the time I &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/2007\/04\/06\/friendly-and-unfriendly-choirs\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8],"tags":[195],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=198"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3756,"href":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/198\/revisions\/3756"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=198"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=198"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.virginiaknight.org.uk\/vhkssinging\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=198"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}